What makes us a better person? When we go through heart ache and suffering, it's said you come out a much stronger and better person. Stronger definitely, but what do they mean by better? The fact we come out less naive and less trusting? Does that necessarily mean better? Better because we decide to close ourselves from everyone because we're afraid that the next person we meet is going to tear us apart like the previous? Better because we had to learn that the world is cruel and brutal and we can't trust anyone but ourself? Better because now we're aware of being a burden to others? How is that better? It doesn't make any sense, I don't make any sense.